Have you ever asked yourself questions like these:
- How do I go from “western sex” to the sacredness of Tantric lovemaking?
- Have you ever wondered “is this all there is to sex”?
- How can I have better sex?
Oceana’s top tantra tips
Make time for love making
“It’s ironic that making love is such a pleasurable experience but we fill our life with other things so we don’t have time to enjoy it.” ~ Oceana
Create a sacred space in which to make love in
Set up an altar in the corner perhaps with candles, shells and crystals.
Incorporate soul gazing into your love making
Start slowly with soul gazing for a minute as this can be quite intense. Gradually build up to 5 minutes.
Candles and oil burners will create soft lighting and set the mood.
Evoke all the 5 senses
Dance for your lover, read poetry, make up stories and sometimes feed each other. Strawberries dipped in chocolate are delicious
Honour each other
Bow down at each other’s feet, then take it in turns to say what you love about the other person.
This enables you to put aside any everyday problems and turn sex into lovemaking.
Taking you from the ordinary to the extra-ordinary
Breathing together, in unison during lovemaking
Do three of these breaths together. Enjoy going into the stillness.
Feel the melting and merging; two hearts, bodies and spirits together. Feel how this enhances your love making for both of you.
Whenever you want to feel this connection during love making, stop and breath together.
The afterglow is just as important as foreplay
If there are any issues to discuss, leave them for another time.
Savour this precious moment.
What they say about Oceana:
Thank you for the incredible empowerment you have given me. I have never felt more balanced in my life than I do at this moment. Your love, honour and knowledge have been a shining example of the kind of life I wish to lead.
Oceana – Thank you for what you have taught me, opening my soul to see what makes me who I am, unmasking me so I can glimpse who I am capable of being.
- Lea, Sydney
“Oceana inspires everyone to choose to live their dreams”