Have you ever asked yourself questions like these:
- How do I go from “western sex” to the sacredness of Tantric lovemaking?
- Have you ever wondered “is this all there is to sex”?
- How can I have better sex?
Oceana’s top tantra tips
Make time for love making
Give love making a priority in your life. Make a date to make love!
“It’s ironic that making love is such a pleasurable experience but we fill our life with other things so we don’t have time to enjoy it.” ~ Oceana
Create a sacred space in which to make love in
De-clutter your room - and transform your bedroom into a romantic hideaway.
Set up an altar in the corner perhaps with candles, shells and crystals.
Incorporate soul gazing into your love making
Look deeply into your partner’s eyes.
Start slowly with soul gazing for a minute as this can be quite intense. Gradually build up to 5 minutes.
Candles and oil burners will create soft lighting and set the mood.
Evoke all the 5 senses
Play beautiful music and let it flow with your feelings and open your hearts.
Have fun
Dance for your lover, read poetry, make up stories and sometimes feed each other. Strawberries dipped in chocolate are delicious
Honour each other
Before making love, sit opposite each other; breathe deeply and gaze into each other’s eyes.
Bow down at each other’s feet, then take it in turns to say what you love about the other person.
This enables you to put aside any everyday problems and turn sex into lovemaking.
Taking you from the ordinary to the extra-ordinary
Breathing together, in unison during lovemaking
When you are in sexual union, stop all movements, relax and focus on your breath, simply take a deep breath in unison together and hold it as long as is comfortable.
Do three of these breaths together. Enjoy going into the stillness.
Feel the melting and merging; two hearts, bodies and spirits together. Feel how this enhances your love making for both of you.
Whenever you want to feel this connection during love making, stop and breath together.
The afterglow is just as important as foreplay
Only speak words of love
If there are any issues to discuss, leave them for another time.
Savour this precious moment.
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